Reality Steve

Um, yeah. I posted the first video and although it is the same wig, it is NOT the same video. I would NOT have posted the "Cream Dream" video. In fact, I'm pretty grossed out by it. :throwup:

Yikes! I don't mean to 'pile on the 'loser'' but I think this is exactly what Ashley means about boy versus man.

Gina wrote:So I guess that video removes the holy halo from Ben? He should be thankful for the perfect edit. Sorry, but it's just the frat boy vibe, that I said from the first night. He sure does love that ridiculous wig. And that's my opinion, so don't everyone get their panties in a wad. :giggle: I can't even imagine the venom and complete hatred that would be spewed to JP if that was him in the video. just sayin. Sure does put things in perspective.

Hi Gina!! Well, you're right about the video removing Ben's holy halo! Holy cow!! :shock:

Nibbles22 wrote:

Gina wrote:So I guess that video removes the holy halo from Ben? He should be thankful for the perfect edit. Sorry, but it's just the frat boy vibe, that I said from the first night. He sure does love that ridiculous wig. And that's my opinion, so don't everyone get their panties in a wad. :giggle: I can't even imagine the venom and complete hatred that would be spewed to JP if that was him in the video. just sayin. Sure does put things in perspective.

Hi Gina!! Well, you're right about the video removing Ben's holy halo! Holy cow!! :shock:

Bizarro! I'm thinking stains instead of halo at this point. Ewww.

Alanna wrote:Yikes! I don't mean to 'pile on the 'loser'' but I think this is exactly what Ashley means about boy versus man.

Um, yeah! :vomit:

Nibbles22 wrote:

Gina wrote:So I guess that video removes the holy halo from Ben? He should be thankful for the perfect edit. Sorry, but it's just the frat boy vibe, that I said from the first night. He sure does love that ridiculous wig. And that's my opinion, so don't everyone get their panties in a wad. :giggle: I can't even imagine the venom and complete hatred that would be spewed to JP if that was him in the video. just sayin. Sure does put things in perspective.

Hi Gina!! Well, you're right about the video removing Ben's holy halo! Holy cow!! :shock:

Anyone else see him fitting in with the BB gang now??

I think some will be surprised to find out that Ben is far from perfact. A great guy, yes. Extremely intelligent & articulate, heck yes. Perfact? No.

chaslom4 wrote:

Nibbles22 wrote:

Gina wrote:So I guess that video removes the holy halo from Ben? He should be thankful for the perfect edit. Sorry, but it's just the frat boy vibe, that I said from the first night. He sure does love that ridiculous wig. And that's my opinion, so don't everyone get their panties in a wad. :giggle: I can't even imagine the venom and complete hatred that would be spewed to JP if that was him in the video. just sayin. Sure does put things in perspective.

Hi Gina!! Well, you're right about the video removing Ben's holy halo! Holy cow!! :shock:

Anyone else see him fitting in with the BB gang now??

That's what I've been saying all along!! LOL! I can't wait to see him (and maybe Constantine??) on BB!!!

Yeah, the video wasn't even funny

Alanna wrote:Yikes! I don't mean to 'pile on the 'loser'' but I think this is exactly what Ashley means about boy versus man.

I hear you Alanna, but this video doesn't make Ben a 'bad' guy (I know you aren't saying it does).... just a 'guy' ... maybe a bit young (which he is!)..... sigh..... Boys will be boys!!

(You don't even want to know what an old boyfriend & his college buddy did to the lyrics of "My Favorite Things' ..... many, many moons ago!!!!! :giggle: )

Don't exactly know when this was - uh - 'composed', but if it after his dad died, maybe it was way of dealing w/the sadness?

I won't bother to listen to it - doesn't take a rocket scientist to imagine rauchy lyrics & it certainly doesn't change my good opinion of Ben - but it does, as you said, lend credence to the the 'boy vs man' arguement.

Alanna wrote:Yikes! I don't mean to 'pile on the 'loser'' but I think this is exactly what Ashley means about boy versus man.

DeAnna/JenFan wrote:

Alanna wrote:Yikes! I don't mean to 'pile on the 'loser'' but I think this is exactly what Ashley means about boy versus man.

I hear you Alanna, but this video doesn't make Ben a 'bad' guy (I know you aren't saying it does).... just a 'guy' ... maybe a bit young (which he is!)..... sigh..... Boys will be boys!!

(You don't even want to know what an old boyfriend & his college buddy did to the lyrics of "My Favorite Things' ..... many, many moons ago!!!!! :giggle: )

Don't exactly know when this was - uh - 'composed', but if it after his dad died, maybe it was way of dealing w/the sadness?

I won't bother to listen to it - doesn't take a rocket scientist to imagine rauchy lyrics & it certainly doesn't change my good opinion of Ben - but it does, as you said, lend credence to the the 'boy vs man' arguement.

I think Ashley picked up on this very slight detachment in Ben.....she wanted more, and he just didn't have it in him yet. I think he will though eventually. Chris L was able to move on pretty quickly. I think it will take Ben a little longer.