The Bachelorette 11 - Kaitlyn Bristowe - FRC - ATFR- July 27th *Sleuthing - Spoilers*

The guy was intimate with the woman he wants so I am sure Shawn does not respect Nick enough to care one way or the other.

Alanna wrote:I think Shawn was doing it in an effort to not pay attention to Nick and just focus on his relationship with Kaitlyn. I'm guessing it was a suggestion by tptb and he didn't realize how ridk it would sound on the show.

Except the result was just the opposite. It drew attention to Nick and the message to me was he was upset with Nick because he saw him as a threat. It reminded me of something someone would do in junior high not a "grown azz man".JMO.

Alanna wrote:I think Shawn was doing it in an effort to not pay attention to Nick and just focus on his relationship with Kaitlyn. I'm guessing it was a suggestion by tptb and he didn't realize how ridk it would sound on the show.

IMO that was the way that the producers referred to Shawn when they talked about Nick so to Shawn he was doing nothing more than mimicking them - which was exactly their intent in the first place because that was what they wanted on the show - for drama. When you get into a habit of calling someone by a particular name it tends to carry over into other situations as well and IMO Shawn got into that habit with the producers. Just what they wanted.

iamreal2u wrote:The guy was intimate with the woman he wants so I am sure Shawn does not respect Nick enough to care one way or the other.

^^^ This too
IMO

Bet2Win wrote:

1Canary wrote:

Hi Everyone! I'm new to the forum. This is the first Bachelorette I've watched from the beginning. Just like Kaitlyn, Shawn had me at "group hug!" Go team #KaitBoo!!

Anyway, I just watched the latest 30 second preview and when Kaitlyn says "you're not the one" I got the feeling she was saying it to Shawn. Now I'm sick to my stomach with worry.  

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Don't lose any sleep over that preview. That's what TPTB want you to think. I have a feeling you are gonna be thrilled with the ending if you want K to pick S. JMO.

iamreal2u wrote:The guy was intimate with the woman he wants so I am sure Shawn does not respect Nick enough to care one way or the other.

Oh yeah, I dunno about Shawn, but I'm so over this whole thing.

I mean, I feel like I've seen and heard so much of Nick and Kait in that hotel room, it's like I was in a threesome with them there.

I can't even imagine how over it Shawn must be, considering he's had to listen as she cried and moaned about the fallout for months now.

iamreal2u wrote:The guy was intimate with the woman he wants so I am sure Shawn does not respect Nick enough to care one way or the other.

So N was intimate with the woman S wants so S does not respect N...but he does respect K? It takes "two to tango". JMO Oh I know, "love" doesn't always make sense.

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I got the feeling in that clip was that it was an ITM (in the moment) when she was talking to a producer as in How do I tell him "you're not the one". They wouldn't have had that camera angle if she as talking to one of the guys.

iamreal2u wrote:The guy was intimate with the woman he wants so I am sure Shawn does not respect Nick enough to care one way or the other.

Rolly wrote:

iamreal2u wrote:The guy was intimate with the woman he wants so I am sure Shawn does not respect Nick enough to care one way or the other.

So N was intimate with the woman S wants so S does not respect N...but he does respect K?   It takes "two to tango". JMO  Oh I know, "love" doesn't always make sense.

I just don't get it either. It makes no sense to me for one to have that attitude when his girl is the one who invited Nick back to her room and apparently went back for seconds. We can justify it any which way but loose, the but fact of the matter is, she had sex with Nick, it was just as much her choice.

^^ And was sorry after. I think K realized she made a mistake and basically did some mea culpas. Most thinks that she was intimate again with Nick but I honestly do not believe she was, hence Nick being so flipping horny each time he saw her. In the end it was up to Shawn to forgive and trust her again. With Nick he does not care one way or the other.

iamreal2u wrote:^^ And was sorry after.  I think K realized she made a mistake and basically did some mea culpas.  Most thinks that she was intimate again with Nick but I honestly do not believe she was, hence Nick being so flipping horny each time he saw her.  In the end it was up to Shawn to forgive and trust her again.  With Nick he does not care one way or the other.  

Kaitlyn said having sex with Nick was not a mistake. She regrets the timing of when it happened and I believe she was just afraid Shawn would find out about it. I could be wrong but I think Kaitlyn had sex in the FS with Shawn, Nick and Ben. I think she asked Ben if he was a virgin to have some idea if she would be able to "kick those tires" too. The FS is for exploring the physical aspects of each relationship is what I think K believes. JMO.

iamreal2u wrote:^^ And was sorry after.  I think K realized she made a mistake and basically did some mea culpas.  Most thinks that she was intimate again with Nick but I honestly do not believe she was, hence Nick being so flipping horny each time he saw her.  In the end it was up to Shawn to forgive and trust her again.  With Nick he does not care one way or the other.  

Well said. ;)

iamreal2u wrote:^^ And was sorry after.  I think K realized she made a mistake and basically did some mea culpas.  Most thinks that she was intimate again with Nick but I honestly do not believe she was, hence Nick being so flipping horny each time he saw her.  In the end it was up to Shawn to forgive and trust her again.  With Nick he does not care one way or the other.  

If I remember her words correctly, she never admitted to regretting the act, just the timing of the act.