The Bachelor 20 - Ben Higgins - Episode 8 - HTD - Discussion - *Sleuthing - Spoilers*

and with amanda and lauren being good friends im sure they will still see him every one and a while. Im sure they won't be able to tell the difference between him being with mom and him being with lauren.

mizzoufan wrote:

havadrpepper wrote:IMO, he should have never taken her this far. Those kids do not understand what is going on and shouldn't be subjected to it.

They won't remember him. They saw him a couple of hours max

Doesn't matter. Their mother has been missing from their lives for awhile and all they want is to be with her... not some strange guy she brought home not to mention all the cameras and production people.

Amanda seems sweet but she needs to chill on the whole "my ex is scum" talk!! He may be complete garbage but conduct yourself with class!

Amanda's kids are adorable. I feel a bit bad though. They are entirely too young for their mom to leave for long periods of time like this.

amanda doesn't look like any of her parents.

Diana wrote:Amanda's kids are adorable. I feel a bit bad though. They are entirely too young for their mom to leave for long periods of time like this.

True! Really, what was she thinking ?

havadrpepper wrote:

mizzoufan wrote:

havadrpepper wrote:IMO, he should have never taken her this far. Those kids do not understand what is going on and shouldn't be subjected to it.

They won't remember him. They saw him a couple of hours max

Doesn't matter. Their mother has been missing from their lives for awhile and all they want is to be with her... not some strange guy she brought home not to mention all the cameras and production people.

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Don't agree at all but whatever

I really think Amanda likes Ben but I do not think she is any were near being in love with him

I think she just really wants a good daddy for her babies and even though this was not the ideal way to go about getting that, I don't feel as if she's a bad mom or person for subjecting them to it. They are little. They will forget it. Prob already has.

havadrpepper wrote:

mizzoufan wrote:

havadrpepper wrote:IMO, he should have never taken her this far. Those kids do not understand what is going on and shouldn't be subjected to it.

They won't remember him. They saw him a couple of hours max

Doesn't matter. Their mother has been missing from their lives for awhile and all they want is to be with her... not some strange guy she brought home not to mention all the cameras and production people.

Ben doesnt take all the culpability. Amanduh the mother does.

Ben looks like Amanda's brother.

that was a quick date.