Ben Higgins - Bachelor 20 - Discussion

Ben and Lauren may have only broken up publicly just over a month ago but I think it's pretty clear they've been over for months. I think both had already mourned the end of the relationship by the time it was public. JMO.

I have no idea if Ben will get back together with his ex. If I had to guess, I'd say the ex wants him back simply because he's "Ben the Bachelor".

hannah.e. wrote:

Lennoxcolinrolland wrote:These two have been mentally and emotionally DONE for a while IMO. Some lady said Lauren's ex's friend told her that Lauren was texting Sean (the ex) back in February. The lady followed Sean, but once people started attacking her, she made her account private.

Wow, I haven't heard that. That's major juicy. Late February and late March around Ben's birthday her and Ben seemed kind of okay IMO.

I personally don't think they've been okay for all of 2017. And who knows if it's true or not. Anyone can say anything on the Internet. Unless there's some sort of proof, it's all hearsay IMO.

And my apologies, it was either January or February.. I don't remember for certain.

Lennoxcolinrolland wrote:These two have been mentally and emotionally DONE for a while IMO. Some lady said Lauren's ex's friend told her that Lauren was texting Sean (the ex) back in February. The lady followed Sean, but once people started attacking her, she made her account private.

Like you said, some lady on the internet can be simply anyone, and if they don't bring the receipts, I'm thinking it's just an OTT fan. Lauren certainly has had those after her for a long time. Jmo

Cocoasneeze wrote:

Lennoxcolinrolland wrote:These two have been mentally and emotionally DONE for a while IMO. Some lady said Lauren's ex's friend told her that Lauren was texting Sean (the ex) back in February. The lady followed Sean, but once people started attacking her, she made her account private.

Like you said, some lady on the internet can be simply anyone, and if they don't bring the receipts, I'm thinking it's just an OTT fan. Lauren certainly has had those after her for a long time. Jmo

But she said the person followed Sean (her ex)

Cocoasneeze wrote:

Lennoxcolinrolland wrote:These two have been mentally and emotionally DONE for a while IMO. Some lady said Lauren's ex's friend told her that Lauren was texting Sean (the ex) back in February. The lady followed Sean, but once people started attacking her, she made her account private.

Like you said, some lady on the internet can be simply anyone, and if they don't bring the receipts, I'm thinking it's just an OTT fan. Lauren certainly has had those after her for a long time. Jmo

There might be some weight here if she followed Sean. Sean has his SM locked down like Fort Knox and won't let just anyone follow him.

Lauren also liked an IG pic a few months ago ... something about when your ex walks in a bar and you are like "what???" I didn't say anything here at the time, and I'm forgetting details. But whatever. Lauren isn't running back to Sean 2 seconds after the breakup to hang, nor did he do a $hitload of interviews stating he'd take her back.

I agree it's been over for these two since September when Ben cancelled the wedding.

So Ben is hanging out with his ex? JMO, but if she is into him now it's probe just because he's famous, since she dumped him?

Mollie had some pics of Lauren's ex around the time the Bachelor was filming. She deleted them shortly after tho.

Ben has been pining for Shaelin since she was basically his storyline. Shaelin has been pining for Ben since Ben became the Bachelor. Lauren got dragged along with Ben until he cancelled the wedding to wait out time until he could go for the girl her really wants. Breakup finally happens. Now Ben can go back to the woman he always wanted and Shaelin can find Ben less needy because he is Bachelor Ben. This sordid Fairy Tale has been inevitable from the start IMO. Wedding bells can happen soon because Ben does not need time to create memories with his friends before being able to marry. IMO
JMO

SMH at Ben 

When an account is private what that means is it is private.
NOTHING on that account is to be shared in a post on a thread. Not who they are or are not following, dating, traveling to or from etc.
NOTHING.
We can not stress this enough.
Please be mindful of this.
Thank you.
Discussion of Lauren and her issues are to be in her thread, BTW. Thank you, again.

The comments under Ben's IG are getting pretty ridiculous. It all started with someone (a troll) saying that him and Shaelin were making out at the bar. When there's nothing online that indicates that happened. No pictures/videos of that happening. None of the fan pictures I've seen have said he was making out with someone. Why are people so gullible it was a child's birthday party!!


EDIT: the ONLY thing that makes me go hmm is the comments Naz and Shaelin made under Naz's picture in response to the trolls. https://www.instagram.com/p/BVumg9Wg9Vg/?hl=en