Bachelor 22 - Arie Luyendyk Jr - SM Media - *Sleuthing Spoilers* - #2

The fact that Becca doesn’t have a rose in her bio is one of the reasons I think she’s awesome. I have a feeling she won’t be defined by this show.

SeekAny wrote:The fact that Becca doesn’t have a rose in her bio is one of the reasons I think she’s awesome. I have a feeling she won’t be defined by this show.

Chgohighlife wrote:

SeekAny wrote:The fact that Becca doesn’t have a rose in her bio is one of the reasons I think she’s awesome. I have a feeling she won’t be defined by this show.

notice how her posts are funny and real, not of her body or body parts

Kolormiblnd wrote:

Chgohighlife wrote:

SeekAny wrote:The fact that Becca doesn’t have a rose in her bio is one of the reasons I think she’s awesome. I have a feeling she won’t be defined by this show.

Becca is awesome! I really think Arie is smart enough to marry her.

SeekAny wrote:The fact that Becca doesn’t have a rose in her bio is one of the reasons I think she’s awesome. I have a feeling she won’t be defined by this show.

Can I like this like one hundred times? Becca is great! She doesn't seem to be posting over the top things about the show. She seems to be living her life. JMO

One thing I am confused is that in Arie's interview, he said he made his final decision by choosing someone who fits his normal life better.
I feel between Lauren and Becca. Becca is the one less likely to move since she already has a stable job and career. Lauren was engaged once so I doubt she wasn't ready for marriage and she just started her job a half year before filming.

And adding that Arie is competing again, so will Becca move to Arizona when he might not be home frequently?

star_D wrote:One thing I am confused is that in Arie's interview, he said he made his final decision by choosing someone who fits his normal life better.
I feel between Lauren and Becca. Becca is the one less likely to move since she already has a stable job and career. Lauren was engaged once so I doubt she wasn't ready for marriage and she just started her job a half year before filming.  

And adding that Arie is competing again, so will Becca move to Arizona when he might not be home frequently?

Not just her job but Becca seems extremely close to her sister and mother and would not want to move away from them so I can see Arie moving for her so she can stay close to them.  He can do real estate anywhere and racing does not require a home base.  We'ell just have to see how he plans on working out the living arrangements with his F1 who I assume is still Becca. Scottsdale seems so beautiful though.

@star_D yes I've been wondering what their living situation will be post-show as well. It would be nice if Arie would move to where she is living cause of her job and they could travel to Arizona when needed?

It would be good to see a Bachelor move to their choice's living place since it's usually the Bachelorettes who have (ex.: Trista, Des, Kaitlyn) unless a bachelor has done it before but I never watched any before Jason's season and didn't start sleuthing the final couple until Sean's season.

It also could be that she is ready to leave cold MN winters behind ;) I wonder if it is also a possibility that she could work remotely with a trip to MN once a month. Others have made a move when it was thought they wouldn't and it has worked out for them.

FWIW, I have a cousin that works remotely for a group of doctors at Mayo Clinic. He started working for them when his wife was in residency there. When she finished that they both wanted to return to Orlando and the doctors group wanted to keep him so the remote thing was set up. In the beginning he headed to MN once a month but it is more infrequent now. Instead he goes to conferences all over the country (and Europe) with this group!

Does Arie need to get a license if he moves to be with Becca?

I am definitely in the minority here, and probably the only one, and it’s definitely not a popular opinion, but jmho, Rose or not in their sm bio does not make me like someone more or less. Last season’s F1 has a rose but the f2 never does on their IG and I am a big supporter of the final couple. Jmo.
I will, however, root for everyone to be happy, no matter what the outcome is.

I know I am getting ahead of myself but I got the sense from Becca that being close to her family was important and that a move would be difficult.  But then again I don't know what their plans are.  I am sure they will work it out.  I remember a IG post where she said God help the mister that tries to come between me and my sister and both girls seem devoted to the mom and being physically close where she is. A move would also be difficult for Arie because that is his home base and where he is established. Difficult for both of them but love has a way...