Becca Tilley - Bachelor 19 - Discussion - #9

Continue here.

We are fully aware that we have many guests and members that have a peek at our forum to see what's being said about them.

Going on a reality TV show, puts the contestant in the public eye. Whether it be on forums, media, magazines TV other SM avenues. There will always be positive and negative comments.

Our forum is a place to discuss opinions, which consists of a wide variety from pleasant to not so pleasant, based on what we see and read of the contestant. It is our opinion to which we are all entitled to and we shouldn't have to feel guilty for our opinions.

The other factor that is one of the most important is the sleuthing aspect. We are here to sleuth, and that in itself is the basis for forming opinions well before we actually see the contestant on our screen. Often time we have them pegged to a tee, other times not so much based on what we see. The reverse is also true. Sometimes we see someone who is popular but post filming their actions changed viewers minds. Again, we are entitled to voice our opinions on any reality TV contestant who has subjected themselves to a national audience.

Therefore I encourage everyone to continue discussing their point of view regardless of what anyone thinks we're suppose to say. It's up to us each as an individual to be cordial and at the same time exchange good conversation amongst us while following forum rules.

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Sounds good to me! 

I know many past contestants read here, but which ones have posted as themselves besides Becca?

Ashley Spivey and Chantal did at one point.

Aslo Jenna Lopes nee Reeves and Hailey from Ready for Love

Hi Becca!!

Another thing about this forum, there is always a general discussion thread where positive/negative opinions are shared, and a "fan" thread where only positive opinions are shared. You have many fans, so you might want to take a look there too.

Chris' season was not my favorite, but you were one of the only bright points and I hope you keep posting.

People definitely can have their own opinions about Becca. But from knowing her and from talking to people, what she posted is spot on. Y'all would love her if you got to know her, or even just had a 5 minute conversation with her. One of the sweetest/most genuine people I know. Not worried about her "chasing hollywood/fame" or anything like that. As I said, if only people knew the things she has turned down...and I'm not just talking about products. No, sir. It's not my place to say, but it would blow your minds if you knew some of the opportunities that she has turned down. Opportunities that I'd bet 95% of contestants would take in a heartbeat to "make it big."

One of the great things about this forum or almost any other, is the degree of anonymity we are able to have. If you want it, fine. If you don't want it, fine.
I think it's wise to always keep in mind with the amount of people visiting here, the possibility of cast, family or friends reading/posting is probably greater than expected. JMOAA.

Uh...wow. Heard from two people today that Becca is going back on. Both are reliable. Will try and get some more info.

Seriously? Why, Becca, why?! Surely there are better ways to find a guy. Ones that don't involve competing with 20+ other women.

mindless wrote:Seriously? Why, Becca, why?! Surely there are better ways to find a guy. Ones that don't involve competing with 20+ other women.

Wish I were joking. Did NOT see this coming at all. Good thing I got the day off of work, I guess...more time to get the scoop.