The Bachelor 20 - Ben Higgins - F1 to F4 - *Sleuthing - Spoilers* - #3

I wouldn't consider Ben a people pleaser at all, unless I'm not understanding the terminology. To me a people pleaser is one who says and does anything to please the person he's with or people who admire him. He IMO is the opposite and says and does what he thinks it right.

Jubilee is a good example. He could have kept her for a lot longer than he did, to please the viewers, or saying ILY to two people, is not something that would please people. I think he lives his life, being honest regardless of who agree's with him or not.

I agree GA!

GuardianAngel wrote:I wouldn't consider Ben a people pleaser at all, unless I'm not understanding the terminology. To me a people pleaser is one who says and does anything to please the person he's with or people who admire him. He IMO is the opposite and says and does what he thinks it right.

Jubilee is a good example. He could have kept her for a lot longer than he did, to please the viewers, or saying ILY to two people, is not something that would please people. I think he lives his life, being honest regardless of who agree's with him or not.

Very well said.

True , and being that honest did cause issues but he faced up to them no matter the hardship . Some say he didn't have cahones, I think his was larger than most of the leads thusfar. Literally and figuratively .

GuardianAngel wrote:I wouldn't consider Ben a people pleaser at all, unless I'm not understanding the terminology. To me a people pleaser is one who says and does anything to please the person he's with or people who admire him. He IMO is the opposite and says and does what he thinks it right.

Jubilee is a good example. He could have kept her for a lot longer than he did, to please the viewers, or saying ILY to two people, is not something that would please people. I think he lives his life, being honest regardless of who agree's with him or not.

True That !