Bachelor 22 - Arie Luyendyk Jr - SM Media - *Sleuthing Spoilers* - #3

PS @Kolormibind..I waited the same 5 years, and now wish he hadn't accepted.

Nixipixi14 wrote:Does anyone think that he is still in contact with Becca??

I sure hope not! But wait a minute, he just might be. Isn't that his MO? He calls to see how they are doing------maybe one thing leads to another?

Nixipixi14 wrote:Does anyone think that he is still in contact with Becca??

I wouldn't think that would be very wise given her family and friends (real life and from the show) reactions.  

I wouldn't answer or respond in anyway, if I was her and he was still trying to contact me.  But thats just me.

JMO

ETA: add me to the group that was hoping to see a HEA finally.  Now, he makes me think that Benji and Nick's seasons, actions and attitudes weren't so bad.  dang you Arie.

Bet2Win wrote:PS @Kolormibind..I waited the same 5 years, and now wish he hadn't accepted.

I got it. I should have finished my sentence, I thought you would understand what I meant.....it was, "Bet2Win, you can laugh all you want, I am sure you waited for him too. And I was right right back at you.

Nixipixi14 wrote:Does anyone think that he is still in contact with Becca??

I don’t think she was on his list of exes to call post filming .    But seriously, this might be the first time we get to see Arie having to confront an ex after how she was treated. All his other Exes never got a suitable straightforward answer to why he did what he did. He just escaped through the back door. Some are even surprised about the other talking about their hookups in the same span of time. Arie seems to lead a girl on to make her want to be monogamous, all the while he is not . I see Lauren being naive enough to do the same, imagining she’s his only one. Imo

Kolormiblnd wrote:

Bet2Win wrote:PS @Kolormibind..I waited the same 5 years, and now wish he hadn't accepted.

I got it. I should have finished my sentence, I thought you would understand what I meant.....it was, "Bet2Win, you can laugh all you want, I am sure you waited for him too.  And I was right  right back at you.

I'm usually not thick.

LeapofFaith wrote:
IMO the thing that turns me off Lauren is not her looks its probably more because she is a trump supporter...sorry I hate to bring up politics but can’t stand the guy....it also makes me feel ill the thought that she might of been talking about love and her feelings with arie about getting back together or whatever while he was still engaged to Becca but that’s just my opinion and have an open mind till the finale but will still say #beccaforbachelorette

I can’t believe it’s down to politics.
But that would sadly explain why so many people have their mind set on how « lovely » Becca and how « stupid» Lauren would be just after watching a couple episodes and not knowing what when done during the season and afterwards behind closed doors.
I used to think people would prefer to sleuth and not jump on rumors and personal political views.
IMO.

Never wish a favorite the lead role. Trainwreck.

Kashathediva wrote:Never wish a favorite the lead role. Trainwreck.

So true! Arie had one of the biggest fan bases and now they've either left the building, jumped ship, or have seen the light!

Haha I'm still a fan even if I think he's being an idiot. Look I truly hope this does work for him. I don't wish him badly or anything and I don't root for him and Lauren to fail. I want him to prove me wrong!

bluwavz wrote:Haha I'm still a fan even if I think he's being an idiot. Look I truly hope this does work for him. I don't wish him badly or anything and I don't root for him and Lauren to fail. I want him to prove me wrong!

Me too!  I don't have high hopes for him actually proving us wrong or the relationship lasting, but I hope he does put in effort and try to make it work.  

ETA: and I need him to stop making Nick and Benji look better ASAP.

Ladybug82 wrote:

bluwavz wrote:Haha I'm still a fan even if I think he's being an idiot. Look I truly hope this does work for him. I don't wish him badly or anything and I don't root for him and Lauren to fail. I want him to prove me wrong!

Me too!  I don't have high hopes for him actually proving us wrong or the relationship lasting, but I hope he does put in effort and try to make it work.  

ETA:  and I need him to stop making Nick and Benji look better ASAP.

It'a a male thing.