The Bachelorette 11 - Kaitlyn Bristowe - #8 - Media - Tweets - IG - *Sleuthing - Spoilers* - Discussion

I really don't like this. What does it matter now and why is the show giving us weekly all this info to publish when she chose shawn. It's like they are deliberately trying to sabotage her relationship. I really don't get it. Revealing all this would be okay if she pick nick. This show confuses me, where is the love story? Smh

I truly believe that night of Nick's HTD, she had her mind momentarily set on Nick. That's why she seemed so OTT when meeting Shawn, like she'd been hyping herself up and was trying to not seem weird to him. But then Kaitlyn was again "in the moment" with Shawn and had a great day and he said ILY and she was swayed towards him again. That's why she was blubbering afterwards, because she was once again back where she started, oscillating between the two.

mysthelma wrote:I really don't like this. What does it matter now and why is the show giving us weekly all this info to publish when she chose shawn. It's like they are deliberately trying to sabotage her relationship. I really don't get it. Revealing all this would be okay if she pick nick. This show confuses me, where is the love story? Smh

I agree TPTb seem hellbent on ruining her relationship just for the sake if a dramatic ATFR. As Kasha says TPTB are Not your friends! Best course for K and S is to stay silent ATFR and not give the TPTb any drama. Pull a Juan Pablo. No need to stay friends with them after this.

And CH quoted as saying in the usweekly article " who knows how it ends" such bs. We know how it ends snapchatgate. I think he is the insider for usweekly. I am sure K confided in him about her relationship with nick prior to the show and they are using it to throw her under the bus

I am just getting the vibe that things were a rocky road throughout. I am not getting a feeling it was as bad as JP, but I am not getting a touchy feely sentiment between K and TPTB. If all this is true, her sleeping with 3 guys and saying ILY to Nick, I cannot imagine her and Shawn lasting.

First, I definitely believe that Grantland source that says Kaitlyn slept with Ben too.  Why wouldn't she?  He was hot and drama-free for the most part, and I think it was smart of her to see if she could see herself with him over Shawn or Nick, since it would make her life easier if so.  And it's certainly possible that Shawn did care because Ben H./Kaitlyn didn't tell him.

As for Shawn being grumpy at the airport, baed on the show, I think his default is "grumpy" so that doesn't say anything.

The US Weekly articles about Kaitlyn/Nick are obviously producer-leaked information to try and stir up questions as to whether snapchat-gate was real or fake (when it's pretty clear that it was real).  Can't imagine it's helping Kaitlyn/Shawn's relationship, but it's not like TPTB care.  Although I wonder if Kaitlyn was actually set to pick Nick, but changed her mind at the last second....

It makes sense wy nick did propose, I would if she saying ily back multiples times. What was she thinking? She jus the worst bette IMO cos she can act out her feelings. She says what she feels in the moment

Perhaps sex is simply like a box of chocolates to K.
My feeling regarding K's response to production using her sex issue to manipulate her and the players was total freak. At that point, the entire storyboard with Patagonia, 4 HTDs, etc was reformatted to get what we got.
Was production pissed --yeah. Was K pissed --yeah. Was Shawn pissed-- yeah. All the other guys were probably drugged or waiting for their chocolate to be sampled.

RS just tweeted that he thinks the news will be either BIP on twice a week, or there will be a Bachelor week on who Wants To Be A Millionaire.

Longhornfan wrote:

Cecilia wrote:Continues to be the best. blog. ever.  This show and how much I obsess over it make me hate myself.

http://lostangelesblog.com/

He is funny.  This may be a dumb question, but what does he mean when he keeps referring to Shawn as Gosleech?

I think Ryan Gosling wanna be and sucking the blood from everyone like a leech!

gurlbrit wrote:

Longhornfan wrote:

Cecilia wrote:Continues to be the best. blog. ever.  This show and how much I obsess over it make me hate myself.

http://lostangelesblog.com/

He is funny.  This may be a dumb question, but what does he mean when he keeps referring to Shawn as Gosleech?

I think Ryan Gosling wanna be and sucking the blood from everyone like a leech!

Very fitting nickname!

mindless wrote:I truly believe that night of Nick's HTD, she had her mind momentarily set on Nick. That's why she seemed so OTT when meeting Shawn, like she'd been hyping herself up and was trying to not seem weird to him. But then Kaitlyn was again "in the moment" with Shawn and had a great day and he said ILY and she was swayed towards him again. That's why she was blubbering afterwards, because she was once again back where she started, oscillating between the two.

I like this. For me personally and moraly , it's better to think the lead was confused, rather than say he was always going to be my F1, love at first sight and all that jazz, but not so fast until I have sex with whom ever I choose right up till the end.

IMO maybe I'm naive, but I don't think Ben cared for K at all. He was just being a nice guy and going along with his role once he realized she wasn't for him. I think being intimate would mean a lot more to him than what K thinks on the same subject. I have no idea, JMHO I don't think they had sex. Ben knew or had a good idea what was going on with K and S. He backed off her a long time ago at that point.