Ben Higgins - Lauren Bushnell - Bachelor 20 - Discussion

Alanna wrote:I like following Lauren too so far! I don't see the big deal in them snapping like 70% of the population in their age range. Not sure what's the problem, they can always be unfriended if it becomes annoying.

Alanna, I personally don't like the over sharing from anyone. But I am in the minority with that. I find when I get too much info from any of these people I tend to lose my liking of them. That is just me and I know that many people love getting the info, so I try not to not judge (not always successful)

I think I really enjoy the discussion with other posters best.

bleuberry wrote:Snapchat is growing on me. I find myself on there more than IG and FB lately.

Literally? Where can I view you?

Snapchat is really fun with your personal friends.

I don't knw if I would open up my personal life to that level with fans if that were me. But I get it.. it's really fun for fans to get a glimpse into their personal life. I follow a few people on Bach Nation although I'm slowly starting to not care as much of their personal life after awhile.

Lauren snapchat so far is not that outrageous like boothstowe so far . So that is a good sign.

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Kashathediva wrote:

bleuberry wrote:Snapchat is growing on me. I find myself on there more than IG and FB lately.

Literally? Where can I view you?

My actual snapchat? 

bleuberry wrote:

Kashathediva wrote:

bleuberry wrote:Snapchat is growing on me. I find myself on there more than IG and FB lately.

Literally? Where can I view you?

My actual snapchat? 

Snapchat/life with Bleu would prob be much more interesting than half these people. Give yourself credit! 

The fastest pair to gain followers among formers of this show . They broke the record .

They need to verify Lauren!

So I originally posted this in the wrong thread, thought I'd bring it over here as was suggested. Not sure there's much to discuss but thought I'd let you in on my observations:

Okay this is going to be long so I apologize in advance. I only ever re-watch their dates; I'm not really interested in watching his connection with anybody else anymore. However someone in the general discussion thread awhile ago mentioned the Bahamas rose ceremony and noticed something I hadn't: Right before Ben gives Jojo the second to last rose he looks at where Lauren B. is standing and rolls his eyes. The poster (and myself) are of the opinion that he did not want to put Lauren through waiting for the last rose with Lauren H. Especially because the cocktail party had been cancelled. So I went back and watched the entire Bahamas date (an episode I usually avoid since they don't kiss once and the most we get is one tiny moment of them in the ocean and later hearing him say he cares about her) and there is more going on then I previously thought. So, Caila gets the first-second-one-on-one (is there a better way to say that?). When Ben picks her up he stays for a minute to talk and walks over to the couch to sit next to Lauren she even says "do you want to sit?" he says "I would love to" and she has to move over so he can sit next to her. Now, he's also sitting next to Leah and the focus of the camera is on her BUT when Ben leaves he says "Have a great day" and looks back at where he was sitting. It could be that he's looking at Leah because she didn't get a one on one but Emily and Olivia didn't either and he doesn't seem to be looking at them. Then on the one on one with Caila she mentions she's tense because "she saw some people's faces when we left." and Ben responds with "Whose?" I think he was concerned about how Lauren felt regarding not getting another one on one. I feel like it was because he wanted to have that date in Warsaw with her the next week but he couldn't tell her that. Then on the group date he sits next to Lauren and Jojo off to the side as they sail over and we know about the "obsessing over Lauren B the whole time" comment by Leah. It's just funny to me how much I notice now. I really do think Ben was a little worried in Bahamas regarding Lauren and not just because of Leah's lies. Just my observations and opinions.

Great observations . It was interesting that on the catamaran he is sitting with Lauren and Jojo and the rest of the girls are clumped together. Did those two girls go over Ben or did Ben go over to those two girls. Was he with Lauren first and did Jojo join them or vice versa. I wonder what else made the girls feel he was obsessing over Lauren. Couldn't have just been the alone time after the pigs.

ForeverLove wrote:Great observations . It was interesting that on the catamaran he is sitting with Lauren and Jojo and the rest of the girls are clumped together. Did those two girls go over Ben or did Ben go over to those two girls. Was he with Lauren first and did Jojo join them or vice versa. I wonder what else made the girls feel he was obsessing over Lauren. Couldn't have just been the alone time after the pigs.

Agreed. What little we saw of their time together in the ocean of pigs wasn't anything significant. I think Ben's blog of that week mentions that there was a rumor going around that date that he had already decided on Lauren B. or something. It is definitely one of those dates that I am now interested in watching all the footage of. I wonder if they did kiss in the Bahamas or if their making out around Mexico city and then two weeks later in the red truck in Warsaw was really the way it went down. He doesn't seem the type to kiss in front of the other girls. That nights group date cocktail party was off with the Leah thing.