Ben Higgins - Lauren Bushnell - Bachelor 20 - Discussion

Yeah same . I would think Lauren will chose Cali over Denver to live if just for herself but as what this show should be when they got engaged you should live where the guy is from . And I am not questioning their rel. they seem doing okay . Although from what others saying she seems bored in Denver . I can say maybe a little . Her snapchat showed a bit but I am sure she will get use to it . Ben seems very busy while she has a lot of time on her hands and she just moved there more than two months . Jmo.

soccermom333 wrote:

babs wrote:Emily Maynard posted a picture of JoJo walking on the beach in her bikini with a caption that read........."Eat your heart out Ben"!

I was shocked.  Why would she be so disrespectful to post something like that.  Did Ben piss her off or something?

I didn't take any offense, just a compliment towards Jo.  Jmo but I believe she was just pointing out how great she looks in a bikini.  

She would be a fool not to see Jo and Ben have moved on.  

I'm sorry, but if she wants to compliment JoJo, all she needed to say was something along the lines of "rocking that bikini JoJo" or "JoJo looks stunning". Why bring Ben into it? Particularly as she was one PO'd F1 because Brad had such a hot F2 in Chantel. She never was too bright. Thank goodness Ben and Lauren just ignore all the stupidity directed their way and focus on each other and their life.

No free passes for Emily.  I don't buy that she was unaware of the rudeness.  She was such a demanding jealous self involved princess with Brad that she would have lost her $**t if a former had said this about Chantal.  If she was unaware then her IQ is sorely lacking.  I agree with Sprite...compliment JoJo and leave Ben and Lauren out of it.
Nov 2015 was a long time ago.  Moving on.....

JMO

Seabear wrote:No free passes for Emily.  I don't buy that she was unaware of the rudeness.  She was such a demanding jealous self involved princess with Brad that she would have lost her $**t if a former had said this about Chantal.  If she was unaware then her IQ is sorely lacking.  I agree with Sprite...compliment JoJo and leave Ben and Lauren out of it.
Nov 2015 was a long time ago.  Moving on.....

JMO

Let's remember that Emily is the same woman who believed RS's spoiler that Brad spent Thanksgiving with Chantal. Nuff said. 

bluwavz wrote:

Seabear wrote:No free passes for Emily.  I don't buy that she was unaware of the rudeness.  She was such a demanding jealous self involved princess with Brad that she would have lost her $**t if a former had said this about Chantal.  If she was unaware then her IQ is sorely lacking.  I agree with Sprite...compliment JoJo and leave Ben and Lauren out of it.
Nov 2015 was a long time ago.  Moving on.....

JMO

Let's remember that Emily is the same woman who believed RS's spoiler that Brad spent Thanksgiving with Chantal. Nuff said. 

^ This. This kind of poop can't be made up. Seriously, the woman could not read her cue cards.

Let's remember that Emily is the same woman who believed RS's spoiler that Brad spent Thanksgiving with Chantal. Nuff said. 
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I know.. that season was crazy... I think even Chantal believed she was F1 after the RS spoilers came out.... and she was there!!!!

OT: I never liked Emily. Not on her season, not on Brad's season, etc. He should have picked Chantal, IMO. Of course, Brad wasn't the sharpest crayon in the box, either, even if he was a pretty one.

OT2: If people could not allude to JoJo's F1 in non-spoiler threads, it would be great!

Back on topic: While I find Lauren/Ben dull, I don't understand why anyone would attack them or be annoying about JoJo. They seem normal, they moved to Denver, they will probably get married, etc. JoJo is glamming it up as the next lead. I agree that it's all as it should be.

There should be nothing that even hints of anything spoilerish in those threads.
Please report a post or contact one of the mods if you even think there is as we are trying our hardest to keep that a spoiler free zone.

In regards to Ben and Lauren dealing with negative comments about who Ben chose to be with , Ben was on a radio station in Denver this morning talking about his experience on The Bachelor. He was asked how hard it was for Lauren to watch the show. He commented again how it was brutal & a hard couple of months. This time he mentioned that "there's no jealousy in our lives ever again after that." That was a true test of their trust and commitment. They've had 2 months to be together openly, get to know eachother more, and spend time with respective family and friends. It appears that they both affirm eachothers' love on a regular basis and make an effort to communicate. IMO, they've gotten past the toughest hurdle because of this. I feel like they're not losing sleep over fans' comments. JMO.

Kashathediva wrote:LOL I don't know. All I know is they often joked about the fifth grader comparison.
Again, point being, I don't think she had a clue what the post was going to be taken for.  I tend to believe she was not being mean toward anyone, only flattering to JoJo and didn't think her post would be taken in a different direction.

I'm late to this conversation but in her book Emily alluded to the fact that she barely made it through high school. She had a lot of emotional problems, was hospitalized for suicidal ideation and just wasn't a student. My impression (and opinion only) is that she is caring and respectful. I don't think there was much malice or thought behind that comment other than to compliment Jo Jo. JMO

Sprite wrote:

soccermom333 wrote:

babs wrote:Emily Maynard posted a picture of JoJo walking on the beach in her bikini with a caption that read........."Eat your heart out Ben"!

I was shocked.  Why would she be so disrespectful to post something like that.  Did Ben piss her off or something?

I didn't take any offense, just a compliment towards Jo.  Jmo but I believe she was just pointing out how great she looks in a bikini.  

She would be a fool not to see Jo and Ben have moved on.  

I'm sorry, but if she wants to compliment JoJo, all she needed to say was something along the lines of "rocking that bikini JoJo" or "JoJo looks stunning". Why bring Ben into it? Particularly as she was one PO'd F1 because Brad had such a hot F2 in Chantel. She never was too bright. Thank goodness Ben and Lauren just ignore all the stupidity directed their way and focus on each other and their life.

I agree Emily might not be the brightest but I like her. I believe--jmo--that she was just giving a compliment to Jo. Clearly Ben and Jo have moved on.