Ben Higgins - Lauren Bushnell - Bachelor 20 - Discussion - #4

ReneeM wrote:Nothing's wrong with the tweets individually, it's when you put both of them together that it's questionable. It's been my experience that when couples on sm seem like they're subbing each other, (whether they're from this franchise or not) they usually are.

Yeah, but it never even crossed my mind that they were subbing each other to begin with. I think that's reading too much into things in this case.

And even if they are - eh. I think that's a good description of where both are, and they need to find a way to meet in the middle. Ben needs a nudge to get the heck out of his head and into action. But at the same time, they need to figure stuff out that's right for them and not what everyone expects of them, do things on their own timeline and Lauren needs to be patient with that.

So, their tv wedding still happening? When is their tv wedding ?

Now that I've read both tweets, it really doesn't come across as anything imo. Jojo also liked the tweet that Lauren retweeted and there was more to it than just a dog. I liked it for that matter. I have to say that none of my tweets or retweets have anything to do with my dh. Not everything is a clue about their relationship imo.

I don't really get the strong feelings either way about this couple. To me they seem nice, slightly bland young people who appear to be happy. Their show may have been a somewhat poor choice but it's over now. Hopefully they'll avoid doing the horrible couple therapy shows that some of the others have done. Money's not everything. JMO

^^ They don't seem happy to me. There was a time I felt the same, that they were boring but happy but that's not how I feel anymore. I don't think they'll break up (at least anytime soon) , but that's more because of their personality types than anything else. They both seem the type to stay in unhappy relationships/marriages rather than walk away. All JMO.

I agree, they don't look happily in love.
I still remember seeing the sparkles in his eyes during filming, but from the little I saw that was posted here, those sparkles haven't been seen for a long time.

Lauren just planned a trip latter this month I wonder is Ben is going with her

@Edgarretana10 where did you see this

@hae1001 her twitter

She says "I" so I assume she's going alone instead of "we." If they're no longer happy, perhaps they should stop chopping off this cats tail by segments and just get this over and done with in one fell swoop? IMO.

Yeah. IF it is over then end it. If this is something for her blog then that is nothing just her version of work.

Basically  Lauren  has been in Denver for one day  and she wishes it was summer based on her IG post plan to make a trip by the end of the month based on her twitter and it doesn't sound Ben is going with her she normally doesn't post any of her plans on social media but lately she does going to Dave and Busters, lakers game, stagecoach with Amanda and now this trip odd

Yesterday when they were going to see the animals I thought they were fine, but now I'm back to getting a weird vibe. It does kind of seem like they're leading increasingly separate lives, unless she's going to see wedding venues while Ben has to work. JMO.