Ben Higgins - Lauren Bushnell - Bachelor 20 - Discussion - #8

@hannah.e. thanks. That's why I don't bother with IG, no patience to scroll through and searching doesn't appear to be accurate.   I'm glad we have the facts as of now. If it changes, we'll know as of now they were following each other.

They don't seem like the kind of people that would immediately unfollow at a breakup especially one that hasn't been officially announced. Maybe down the line it'll quietly happen. Just not right away. IMO

There are other couples who house shopped shortly after because after all they do have to live somewhere together, and they are still together. So it works both ways IMHO.

Lauren moved to Denver right away, so IMO it doesn't matter what the couples do or don't do. If it's not going to work, it won't.

aviej wrote:How long have they officially been together for?

It will be 18 months next week. Good run.

Would Becca and Robert really count as a Bachelor couple? Cause that's lame. I want another shocking heavyweight to go down with BenLo.

ETA: I think Lauren basically promoting that backyard thing as just hers kind of seals the deal. I thought it was super weird that she chose just a picture of herself to promote that on IG. Not a lot of "them" language. Just "me/mine."

sosleepy wrote:

aviej wrote:How long have they officially been together for?

It will be 18 months next week. Good run.

Would Becca and Robert really count as a Bachelor couple? Cause that's lame. I want another shocking heavyweight to go down with BenLo.

He said SM made it obvious. Kaitlyn and Shawn just had their 2 year anniversary and seem pretty normal on SC. Today's Jordan & Jojo's 1 year anniversary and they've been very solid on SM. Carly and Evan seem normal. Janner (though that relationship is very ugly IMO) don't seem to be breaking up anytime soon. SeanCat & Chres aren't even a question in my mind. That leaves N/V & Becca/Robert. Becca and Robert are the only other couple that's obviously 'off' on SM. All JMO.

RS could check IG or this forum to get break up news , or do people inside Bach nation give him this info?

Oh, also AFAIK, Lauren didn't even promote or tweet about that Disney wedding show. To me, it seemed like they were trying and doing ok until they left to film that special. Since then, things seem on the rocks again. I wonder if surrounding themselves with wedding stuff for that special triggered some tough talks and brought up more hurt feelings again.

@sosleepy When will he have all his facts together to lay out? Did he said he will do it monday or when????????????

^ as for the wedding special..it only took two days to film..and I wasn't able to watch in my country..so if anyone has a link to it let me know!
However, the clips I did see, and the small promo interviews they did for it..I felt like when asked about what they'd like to see at their wedding..they said MY wedding, rather than saying our wedding

coolangel wrote:

aviej wrote:

coolangel wrote:

The 'faker who just got kicked off dwts and his f1' were looking at their first home according to a real estate agent 3 days back so unless it's a new thing to move into a new house to announce a breakup, I think they are good.

All JMO

Not that I think Nick and Vanessa are the ones who are splitting up (at least for the moment), I have learned however, not to put too much weight on house shopping. Andi and Josh were house hunting in the Fall of 2014 and by January 2015 they were done.  JMO.

For me, it's the timing of it. They weren't spotted house hunting months ago. This happened 3 days back. IMO at the moment, Vanessa has no personal or professional ties in US apart from her fiancé. If they were to break-up, I see her on the first flight back to Canada - not hanging out in LA helping Nick find a house.

All JMO

Vanessa cooked a meal for him 2 days ago, he liked a tweet where she is named one of the 50 most people in Canada a day go... if they break up now, I will call both of them fake actors.

Good lord, maybe B+L should have learned their lesson and decided to not film more crap until their relationship was on more solid ground if that's when things started going downhill again. IMO.

Lauren just posted a visible clear picture of her ring like 2 minutes ago... Though I know it means nothing, just timing.