Bachelor 22 - Arie Luyendyk Jr - Episodes - Feb 5th - *Sleuthing - Spoilers*

GuardianAngel wrote:

pbmax wrote:Those likes on Lauren pic are definitely fact, no speculation there. The first one was done on 12/4, I don't know when filming ended, but according to filming schedule it was 11/17, it wasn't a month before we see evidence that Lauren was on his mind.

IA a lead liking a F2's SM 3 weeks after filming ended, tells me he's thinking of her IMHO, especially when they aren't following each other. I posted my thoughts back then, and still feel the same. If a lead is 100% happy with their choice, the last thing they are going to do is troll the F2's SM. Something was happening with him at that time IMHO.

Yes Becca had a SHV, matched up locations, yes there was a 4wheeling pic where apparently Becca was with him. Around the same time he "likes" Lauren's SM. That right there tells me the wheels were in motion early December. He apparently sneaked a visit with his F1 and is liking F2's SM at the same time is not an indication the lead is totally in love with is choice IMHO.

Lucas15 wrote:

GuardianAngel wrote:

pbmax wrote:Those likes on Lauren pic are definitely fact, no speculation there. The first one was done on 12/4, I don't know when filming ended, but according to filming schedule it was 11/17, it wasn't a month before we see evidence that Lauren was on his mind.

IA a lead liking a F2's SM 3 weeks after filming ended, tells me he's thinking of her IMHO, especially when they aren't following each other. snip

end snip  He apparently sneaked a visit with his F1 and is liking F2's SM at the same time is not an indication the lead is totally in love with [h]is choice IMHO.

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Regardless I think the Dec 3 and Dec 4 likes suggest that Arie was thinking of Lauren no later than then though it could have been earlier. IMO things didn't happen suddenly but rather built over some period of time. If, as spoilers suggest, Arie and Becca talked more than just once about how he was struggling with his decision, the first conversation could have actually been prior to Dec 3 but possibly no later than Dec 3. I don't think the first or earliest concluded the outcome - rather began a dialog that ended up with the decision.

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I went back and read the sm archive and I saw that you, mindless and a couple more knew there were something wrong from the beginning. I knew something different had to happen with Arie saying he fell in love with two women, the look on his face, I knew his statement was different from all the others that said it. Arie face shows what he is thinking.

Who is the other girl in the dirt bike pic?

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Along with Lauren's whereabouts. She was home for Christmas, as per her IG pics, but on Jan 8th she posted a pic of herself outside where there was clearly snow on the ground. Comparing the temp's, there wasn't snow in Dallas but there was in Virginia Beach. RS says she moved back home. Did she move at Christmas time, or right after filming, I'm curious to know. Maybe the move has nothing to do with Arie, but if she knew as early as Christmas and after the last known SHV Dec 8th with Becca/Arie, why not stay put in Dallas, and move to Arizona after all is said and done. Long distance would be easier from Dallas to Arizona than from Virginia Beach. It may mean something or nothing, I'm just trying to sleuth and speculate how this all went down.

Snow pics

pbmax wrote: snipped
I went back and read the sm archive and I saw that you, mindless and a couple more knew there were something wrong from the beginning. I knew something different had to happen with Arie saying he fell in love with two women, the look on his face, I knew his statement was different from all the others that said it. Arie face shows what he is thinking.

Who is the other girl in the dirt bike pic?

Someone CMIIW but I read here somewhere it's his friend? Do we know who the other people were and did we check their SM?

havadrpepper wrote:snip
I think @Kashathediva found that she had not been in that job very long.  I'm not sure the employer would give her a leave of absence to do a reality TV show.  So she may not have even had a job to go back to or a place to live.
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havadrpepper wrote:I jokingly asked her if she and I could get the time off to do TAR... her response:

"Sure thing if you don't plan on coming back to work here!"

GuardianAngel wrote:

Lucas15 wrote:

GuardianAngel wrote:

IA a lead liking a F2's SM 3 weeks after filming ended, tells me he's thinking of her IMHO, especially when they aren't following each other. snip

end snip  He apparently sneaked a visit with his F1 and is liking F2's SM at the same time is not an indication the lead is totally in love with [h]is choice IMHO.

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Regardless I think the Dec 3 and Dec 4 likes suggest that Arie was thinking of Lauren no later than then though it could have been earlier. IMO things didn't happen suddenly but rather built over some period of time. If, as spoilers suggest, Arie and Becca talked more than just once about how he was struggling with his decision, the first conversation could have actually been prior to Dec 3 but possibly no later than Dec 3. I don't think the first or earliest concluded the outcome - rather began a dialog that ended up with the decision.

Along with Lauren's whereabouts. She was home for Christmas, as per her IG pics, but on Jan 8th she posted a pic of herself outside where there was clearly snow on the ground. Comparing the temp's, there wasn't snow in Dallas but there was in Virginia Beach. RS says she moved back home. Did she move at Christmas time, or right after filming, I'm curious to know. Maybe the move has nothing to do with Arie, but if she knew as early as Christmas and after the last known SHV Dec 8th with Becca/Arie, why not stay put in Dallas, and move to Arizona after all is said and done. Long distance would be easier from Dallas to Arizona than from Virginia Beach. It may mean something or nothing, I'm just trying to sleuth and speculate how this all went down.

Snow pics

pbmax wrote: snipped
I went back and read the sm archive and I saw that you, mindless and a couple more knew there were something wrong from the beginning. I knew something different had to happen with Arie saying he fell in love with two women, the look on his face, I knew his statement was different from all the others that said it. Arie face shows what he is thinking.

Who is the other girl in the dirt bike pic?

Someone CMIIW but I read here somewhere it's his friend? Do we know who the other people were and did we check their SM?

pbmax wrote:

GuardianAngel wrote:

pbmax wrote: snipped
I went back and read the sm archive and I saw that you, mindless and a couple more knew there were something wrong from the beginning. I knew something different had to happen with Arie saying he fell in love with two women, the look on his face, I knew his statement was different from all the others that said it. Arie face shows what he is thinking.

Who is the other girl in the dirt bike pic?

Someone CMIIW but I read here somewhere it's his friend? Do we know who the other people were and did we check their SM?

The thing that bother me is she just went back to work and 2 days later She at a SHV. 3 days before that Arie is liking F2 pic again and the pic that he and Becca post that are alike he's saying you're not that great. 12/9 Becca sister comment, classy, sassy, and just a little smart-asst-ready to rumble, ready to rumble about what? 12/14 Arie posting that song...feeling like you can't see yourself without that person and so on, thats love. Sounds like it's meant for Lauren to me. All that to me says he had made a decision. I don't think they spent much time together after they came home from filming. A very short time frame.

GuardianAngel wrote:Along with Lauren's whereabouts. She was home for Christmas, as per her IG pics, but on Jan 8th she posted a pic of herself outside where there was clearly snow on the ground. Comparing the temp's, there wasn't snow in Dallas but there was in Virginia Beach. RS says she moved back home. Did she move at Christmas time, or right after filming, I'm curious to know. Maybe the move has nothing to do with Arie, but if she knew as early as Christmas and after the last known SHV Dec 8th with Becca/Arie, why not stay put in Dallas, and move to Arizona after all is said and done. Long distance would be easier from Dallas to Arizona than from Virginia Beach. It may mean something or nothing, I'm just trying to sleuth and speculate how this all went down.