Bachelorette Australia - Season 4 - Ali Oetjen - SM Media #2 - *Sleuthing Spoilers*

@Bobette honestly it's beyond! I feel so sorry for the kids! I'd wish they'd both wake up and be better people and a parent to their respective child. But I don't see that happening anytime soon. So I am just going to hope their showmance relationship ends up becoming real so they can save others from having to be with them

AllAboutLove wrote:Yeah this is definitely a showmance imo So not legit dating with Charlie and Dasha, them just pretending to do so for attention   
His commenting to her and she replying and posting publicly on her IG story is all part of their plan to get more exposure in the media so DM/media can write a gazillion more articles about them    jmo

Tbh I think both Charlie's child and Dasha's child are both better off not having to be around a parent who'd rather spend time staging fake pics for the paparazzi and attention seeking like they're doing    

Neither seem like good role models at all for their child so it's probably for the best each child is being raised by those who are actually wanting to do so.

I totally agree. Maybe controversial but I think some kids are much better off without toxic parents in their lives. Being a biological parent isn't or shouldn't automatically mean good parent or that you deserve to be in your child's life. Sometimes the best parents are other relatives or foster parents or godparents etc etc. Dasha and Charlie deserve each other imo... however I don't think it's a real relationship, it's PR for both of them. I don't rate Dasha anymore, and I really liked her on Nick's season. I thought she was super classy. I'm just starting to really mistrust the edits they do on these shows more and more all the time.

Why is Dasha's son? All these about her son being most important to her is like a joke.

handsanitiser wrote:

AllAboutLove wrote:
Tbh I think both Charlie's child and Dasha's child are both better off not having to be around a parent who'd rather spend time staging fake pics for the paparazzi and attention seeking like they're doing    

Neither seem like good role models at all for their child so it's probably for the best each child is being raised by those who are actually wanting to do so.

I totally agree.  Maybe controversial but I think some kids are much better off without toxic parents in their lives.  Being a biological parent isn't or shouldn't automatically mean good parent or that you deserve to be in your child's life. Sometimes the best parents are other relatives or foster parents or godparents etc etc.  

Not controversial at all IMO and I totally agree.

It really irks me even more now that Dasha used missing her son as part of her "storyline" on Bach. Weirdly I kind of respect Charlie more for NOT saying anything about his son on the show and protecting his privacy, rather than use it for airtime.

Gosh what have I missed.

One thing - if some toxic people are better off without children then we shouldn't complain about their reduced involvement in the child's life. Particularly in the case of Charlie.

But for Dasha I think there's also a cultural element with children being raised by relatives in other countries. I have close friends who grew up in Australia and lived with extended family while parents worked and lived overseas for many years. Especially if they felt it provided a better life long term for the kid.

It's easy to say off the bat that these crappy choices without context IMO.

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handsanitiser wrote:

AllAboutLove wrote:Yeah this is definitely a showmance imo So not legit dating with Charlie and Dasha, them just pretending to do so for attention   
His commenting to her and she replying and posting publicly on her IG story is all part of their plan to get more exposure in the media so DM/media can write a gazillion more articles about them    jmo

Tbh I think both Charlie's child and Dasha's child are both better off not having to be around a parent who'd rather spend time staging fake pics for the paparazzi and attention seeking like they're doing    

Neither seem like good role models at all for their child so it's probably for the best each child is being raised by those who are actually wanting to do so.

I totally agree.  Maybe controversial but I think some kids are much better off without toxic parents in their lives.  Being a biological parent isn't or shouldn't automatically mean good parent or that you deserve to be in your child's life. Sometimes the best parents are other relatives or foster parents or godparents etc etc.  Dasha and Charlie deserve each other imo... however I don't think it's a real relationship, it's PR for both of them.  I don't rate Dasha anymore, and I really liked her on Nick's season. I thought she was super classy.  I'm just starting to really mistrust the edits they do on these shows more and more all the time.

Super classy??? I thought she was super classy in the same way I think the Kardashians are super classy...like not at all.

The woman came out and put her crotch in the face of a man who she just met and wrapped her legs around his neck. Didn't exactly scream classy to me.

Bette IG posted a vid in their IG stories of Todd warming up https://www.instagram.com/stories/bacheloretteau/

The comments are cracking me up on IG One talking about maybe not watch with her man, her friend replying he might enjoy it as Todd = mancrush


https://www.instagram.com/p/BplB7T-HLB2/?taken-by=bacheloretteau

Ali wearing the outfit she wears when talking to Robert so part of the Group date? I am wondering if Rob gets SQT with Ali from the GD and Todd's SCs (see SC thread) of them on the couch kissing is at the end of his SD? Going to SC thread to discuss further




https://www.instagram.com/p/BplX0iEHrlH/?taken-by=alioetjen


Rob's IG story post. The majority is voting "NO" (60% last I checked). Not sure if he goes home yet or not. There's still Paddy and Daniel who have been silent and Dan/Lambchops too. So maybe Rob stays until next week?


https://www.instagram.com/rob_colangelo/


Maybe Dan/Lambchops leaves? His caption of 'HUGE ep ahead" suggests it's likely imo (definitely sooner than later if not tonight's ep or maybe he finally gets some time?) 

https://www.instagram.com/p/BplJJx5F8pf/?taken-by=daniel_hobley

Is it possible that the photoshoot is from tmrw's episode or is that definitely today and dance could just be something different today?

The preview said Wednesday so I'd think it's all from tonight. I speculated above and posted in the SC thread but it may be Rob gets some SQT during the GD.

#badboybromance





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