Colton Underwood - Episode Mar 4th - *Sleuthing Spoilers*

Aria wrote:

lleyki wrote:Admittedly I've not really watched a lick of this season so my interpretation may be completely off but honestly, I see Colton madly into Cassie and Cassie "likes" Colton. And I don't think that like is strong enough for even a relationship much less marriage.

And all her "conflict" is really based on that. She likes him but that woman is not in love with that guy and she's struggling because she doesn't want to just say that. This whole thing reminds me of the scene in Jerry Maguire when Renee Zellwegger's character says to Tom Cruise's character, "I have a great guy and he loves my son and he sure likes me a lot."

And that was the issue. That he liked her, thought she was a great woman, a great mother but didn't love her. That's this situation, IMO. Cassie likes Colton, probably thinks he's a great guy that would make a great boyfriend but she doesn't love him. That's the crux of this whole thing. He wants her more than she wants him.

Spot on. I think that's why this freak out started this week, because she's realizing she might win and this might be a long-term (not even an engagement, but an outside girlfriend/boyfriend thing) and she doesn't want that. She likes the guy, thinks he's great on paper, even loves him as person. but she knows there's something missing and he isn't what she wants. 

I see Colton as a total Des, as I remember her saying the same thing to Brooks that she had been in relationships before she never got the love back that she gave. I think Colton will find his "Chris" one day, but until he does, he won't realize that when it's right, you don't have someone to convince to love you. 

IMO.

lavenderfan wrote:I think Cassie has been preparing for this backlash. AND I CALLED IT BLACK LACED DRESS IS DURING RECONCILIATION.

Yup. We'll see it there for sure.

Look, I do think Colton was actually pissed at the producers for bringing her dad because that messed with her. I don't think she was pining for the lead bachelorette because she literally shot herself when saying she needed more time.

I guess I'll be in the minority and say I can see this relationship lasting the long haul. The reason I say this is because I think with this much of an obstacle to get together, and we know they reconcile, it's a huge history on their part. And I do think they will fight for their relationship.

northernviewer wrote:I think her dad caused all the doubts unnecessarily .. not everyone "knows" right away ... some grow in love ..especially under these extreme circumstances ..l he shoudl have encouraged not getting engaged maybe ... instead of telling hermshe shoudl be basically ready to marry him if it was right.  

lavenderfan wrote:I think Cassie has been preparing for this backlash. AND I CALLED IT BLACK LACED DRESS IS DURING RECONCILIATION.

Yup. We'll see it there for sure.

Look, I do think Colton was actually pissed at the producers for bringing her dad because that messed with her. I don't think she was pining for the lead bachelorette because she literally shot herself when saying she needed more time.

I guess I'll be in the minority and say I can see this relationship lasting the long haul. The reason I say this is because I think with this much of an obstacle to get together, and we know they reconcile, it's a huge history on their part. And I do think they will fight for their relationship.

lavenderfan wrote:My heart broke for colton when he was shaking. man!

Also, as I mentioned. This is when they reconcile. I wonder how they're going to reconcile. I'd say CASSIE has to be the one to show up. She has to decide. And I think we'll see that.