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Becca Tilley - Bachelor 19 - Discussion - #8

hmbach wrote:
murasaki1393 wrote:i was replying to these posts on B Fan thread and found these posts were deleted...so hopefully its okay for me to bring my response and the posts in reference here.

stuckinsc wrote:

Very much. I think sisters wanted love and marriage right away, but post show Chris seems to want to take time and seems to be trying to have the very type of relationship Becca talked about. One exception, Whitney has a ring on her finger that to me at this point means little more than a promise to get to know each other.
Maybe Chris should have told Becca, I have to ask you to marry me, but to me it s a promise to try to get to know each other better,

thanks for your response, Stuc...on the bolded, i can see it happening only IF :

1. She really is his F1 at that time

2. B on board with the idea of a Fleissian Proposal that is way too different than an IRL Proposal.

Needless to say, i have little doubt about no.1 while i have huge doubt about no.2. She is just too real to pull a Proposal Act just for the sake of the show. Our girl has an impeccable self-awareness and she was immune to the bubble and the gist of the show formula. As CH said, she is the one and only out of this silly show's history.

mindless wrote:

I don't believe that at all. That he knew it was Whitney all along. He might have known that he'd end up proposing to her, because he was so insecure about the women he was the most attracted to. But I think he was holding out hope for Becca until the last day. That's what I saw with my own eyes and it's got nothing to do with the edit. I know what a man in love looks like. I just have trouble believing he could be in love with both. Don't get me wrong, they're both great women. They are just at opposite ends of the energy spectrum. Becca radiates this calming energy and Whitney is a bit high-strung for my liking. I know which one I'm naturally drawn to, and I guess I just have trouble understanding how someone can be equally drawn to both.

great post!..im with you,mindless.. being a '12 years of a slave' of this cray2 show' i know what i have been seeing all along. B-C connection was way more than the contrived Ben-Lindzi, Jake-Tenley, and all past Bachelor's connection with their F2 combined together (yes..even if we put Sean and Lindsay into the mix ). #killmenow :shootme:

that said, only snark train left as the best option for me when it comes to follow another season again... :halo:

I honestly think that Becca was probably the f1 since week 6 but he knew he wouldn't be able to propose, so Whitney would "do" as backup. I think he was holding out hope up until the last minute that she would give him the ILY so the show would be satisfied and he could give her a ring with a long term engagement plan (they would still have a heartbroken f2 in W), but he didn't want her to have to say no to him outright at FRC. To me all the points lead to that... her dress with his tie, his plea at their LCD (he didn't leave there with a NO from her...). Just a crazy thought on my part. My guess now is that either a. he will find a way to love W "enough" to satisfy his family or b. she will stay around long enough to get the ring and then leave him. If that happens it would be heartbreaking since all along that is what he feared the most.

The bold doesn't make any sense. If Becca was in the F1 spot at week 6 why was she one of the 2 whose picture was on that dart board in week 9?

Becca Tilley - Bachelor 19 - Discussion - #8

murasaki1393 wrote:i was replying to these posts on B Fan thread and found these posts were deleted...so hopefully its okay for me to bring my response and the posts in reference here.

stuckinsc wrote:
murasaki1393 wrote:maybe im weird , but i still wonder though..

whether B had the sleepless night the other day wondering how come C and the sisters lying to her face of C wants to marry and has babies yesterday in IA and B being California girl was a deal breaker for them. Alas, he is now staying in Calif limelight to do DWTS , claiming doesnt mind living in 2 cities, at all and not talking about a Wedding yet. How ironic

if i were her, i know i would question those curio too. Thought please ?

Very much. I think sisters wanted love and marriage right away, but post show Chris seems to want to take time and seems to be trying to have the very type of relationship Becca talked about. One exception, Whitney has a ring on her finger that to me at this point means little more than a promise to get to know each other.
Maybe Chris should have told Becca, I have to ask you to marry me, but to me it s a promise to try to get to know each other better,

thanks for your response, Stuc...on the bolded, i can see it happening only IF :

1. She really is his F1 at that time

2. B on board with the idea of a Fleissian Proposal that is way too different than an IRL Proposal.

Needless to say, i have little doubt about no.1 while i have huge doubt about no.2. She is just too real to pull a Proposal Act just for the sake of the show. Our girl has an impeccable self-awareness and she was immune to the bubble and the gist of the show formula. As CH said, she is the one and only out of this silly show's history.

mindless wrote:
Chrisbecca wrote:

God it is all so weird isnt it? Makes me wonder what is true or not. I read somewhere that Chris knew he was going to propose to Whitney all along. Huh? So why all the drama with Becca (who I believe he has chemistry with) on the bed trying to get her to say she loves him, if he has known a long time ago hed end up with Whitney?

I keep trying to put 2&2 together....some things just dont add up with all this.

I don't believe that at all. That he knew it was Whitney all along. He might have known that he'd end up proposing to her, because he was so insecure about the women he was the most attracted to. But I think he was holding out hope for Becca until the last day. That's what I saw with my own eyes and it's got nothing to do with the edit. I know what a man in love looks like. I just have trouble believing he could be in love with both. Don't get me wrong, they're both great women. They are just at opposite ends of the energy spectrum. Becca radiates this calming energy and Whitney is a bit high-strung for my liking. I know which one I'm naturally drawn to, and I guess I just have trouble understanding how someone can be equally drawn to both.

great post!..im with you,mindless.. being a '12 years of a slave' of this cray2 show' i know what i have been seeing all along. B-C connection was way more than the contrived Ben-Lindzi, Jake-Tenley, and all past Bachelor's connection with their F2 combined together (yes..even if we put Sean and Lindsay into the mix ). #killmenow :shootme:

that said, only snark train left as the best option for me when it comes to follow another season again... :halo:

I honestly think that Becca was probably the f1 since week 6 but he knew he wouldn't be able to propose, so Whitney would "do" as backup. I think he was holding out hope up until the last minute that she would give him the ILY so the show would be satisfied and he could give her a ring with a long term engagement plan (they would still have a heartbroken f2 in W), but he didn't want her to have to say no to him outright at FRC. To me all the points lead to that... her dress with his tie, his plea at their LCD (he didn't leave there with a NO from her...). Just a crazy thought on my part. My guess now is that either a. he will find a way to love W "enough" to satisfy his family or b. she will stay around long enough to get the ring and then leave him. If that happens it would be heartbreaking since all along that is what he feared the most.

Becca Tilley - Bachelor 19 - Discussion - #8

i was replying to these posts on B Fan thread and found these posts were deleted...so hopefully its okay for me to bring my response and the posts in reference here.

[mention]stuckinsc[/mention] wrote:
[mention]murasaki1393[/mention] wrote:maybe im weird , but i still wonder though..

whether B had the sleepless night the other day wondering how come C and the sisters lying to her face of C wants to marry and has babies yesterday in IA and B being California girl was a deal breaker for them. Alas, he is now staying in Calif limelight to do DWTS , claiming doesnt mind living in 2 cities, at all and not talking about a Wedding yet. How ironic

if i were her, i know i would question those curio too. Thought please ?

Very much. I think sisters wanted love and marriage right away, but post show Chris seems to want to take time and seems to be trying to have the very type of relationship Becca talked about. One exception, Whitney has a ring on her finger that to me at this point means little more than a promise to get to know each other.
Maybe Chris should have told Becca, I have to ask you to marry me, but to me it s a promise to try to get to know each other better,

thanks for your response, Stuc...on the bolded, i can see it happening only IF :

1. She really is his F1 at that time

2. B on board with the idea of a Fleissian Proposal that is way too different than an IRL Proposal.

Needless to say, i have little doubt about no.1 while i have huge doubt about no.2. She is just too real to pull a Proposal Act just for the sake of the show. Our girl has an impeccable self-awareness and she was immune to the bubble and the gist of the show formula. As CH said, she is the one and only out of this silly show's history.

[mention]mindless[/mention] wrote:
[mention]Chrisbecca[/mention] wrote:
[mention]mindless[/mention] wrote:It definitely seems like Chris is the one who doesn't really know what he wants. I totally believe Becca would've been happier on that farm than Whitney, once she truly fell in love. Oh well, she dodged a bullet. I hated how in his People blog he (or the ghost writer) said that Becca's lack of emotion while being dumped was the answer he needed. You could see the disappointment on her face. She'd just prepared herself for it already because of their conversation. How selfish of him to expect tears from her. As if they'd have made him change his mind anyway. That blog still made it sound like it was hers to lose with an afterthought of "oh BTW, Whitney is the love of my life, since she wanted me so bad".

God it is all so weird isnt it? Makes me wonder what is true or not. I read somewhere that Chris knew he was going to propose to Whitney all along. Huh? So why all the drama with Becca (who I believe he has chemistry with) on the bed trying to get her to say she loves him, if he has known a long time ago hed end up with Whitney?

I keep trying to put 2&2 together....some things just dont add up with all this.

I don't believe that at all. That he knew it was Whitney all along. He might have known that he'd end up proposing to her, because he was so insecure about the women he was the most attracted to. But I think he was holding out hope for Becca until the last day. That's what I saw with my own eyes and it's got nothing to do with the edit. I know what a man in love looks like. I just have trouble believing he could be in love with both. Don't get me wrong, they're both great women. They are just at opposite ends of the energy spectrum. Becca radiates this calming energy and Whitney is a bit high-strung for my liking. I know which one I'm naturally drawn to, and I guess I just have trouble understanding how someone can be equally drawn to both.

great post!..im with you,mindless.. being a '12 years of a slave' of this cray2 show'

i know what i have been seeing all along. B-C connection was way more than the contrived Ben-Lindzi, Jake-Tenley, and all past Bachelor's connection with their F2 combined together (yes..even if we put Sean and Lindsay into the mix

). {#}killmenow{/#} :shootme:

that said, only snark train left as the best option for me when it comes to follow another season again... :halo:

Bachelor 19 - Becca Tilley - Fan Forum - Discussion

murasaki1393 wrote:
Mommyof1 wrote:Another interview with Becca.

http://www.realitytvworld.com/news/the-bachelor-runner-up-becca-tilley-interview-i-still-wonder-if-chris-soules-heart-was-in-my-hands-at-end-17598.php

^^ B said: there is something there from night 1, its obvious. C said at ATFR: undeniable chemistry from day 1.Oh My!! an epitome of too obvious, yet too litle time.

i am at her: having kids right away. No kidding. While C-W who claimed need a half-dozen of babies yesterday embark another public spotlight venture in LA #killmenow :shootme:

Yep! It is ironic that they are in no hurry to get married and have those babies right away!

Bachelor 19 - Becca Tilley - Fan Forum - Discussion

[mention]Mommyof1[/mention] wrote:Another interview with Becca.

http://www.realitytvworld.com/news/the-bachelor-runner-up-becca-tilley-interview-i-still-wonder-if-chris-soules-heart-was-in-my-hands-at-end-17598.php

^^ B said: there is something there from night 1, its obvious. C said at ATFR: undeniable chemistry from day 1.Oh My!! an epitome of too obvious, yet too litle time.

i am

at her: having kids right away. No kidding. While C-W who claimed need a half-dozen of babies yesterday embark another public spotlight venture in LA {#}killmenow{/#} :shootme:

Bachelor 19 - Becca Tilley #5

Along that same line, mindless, I wonder how the death of Becca's great grandmother affected the timing of the FRC. (Forgive me if this has been discussed -- the board has been flying.) I recall weeks ago there was speculation on how she got to her destination (was it Kansas or Oklahoma?). Neither Chris's parent's place or her destination were near major airports, right? Would she have flown...or was she driven? Or was she driven to an airport to make a flight?...so on a specific schedule.

Maybe that's another explanation for her to arrive first at the FRC...which if you go by sunlight in the actual inside limo shots, it appears Becca does. (Forget those random sky limo shots. I'll concede they tell us nothing...no bodies.

) Thus, the order of the arrival may not be telling us the real story this year.

I'm on the Becca roller coaster train (State Fair theme

) until the very end. There's no people I'd rather go down in flames with than my conspiracy chicks. #gobigorgohome or ...

... #knitonepearltwo #killmenow