The Bachelorette 11 - Kaitlyn Bristowe - #8 - Media - Tweets - IG - *Sleuthing - Spoilers* - Discussion

Kaitlyn had dinner post MTA with a bunch of friends. She snapchatted this... and I recognized Becca Tilley and then there was another person who looked familiar and I couldn't place at first, but isn't that Shawn's sister Meghan Booth?? It's a side profile, and she focuses on her for a second, but it looks like her to me!

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This is a picture from her instagram to compare:
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Instagram: [url=instagram.com/booth10]

This girl never freaking learns! Get off of snapchat, Kaitlyn!!!!

^ I believe the girl is Amber, K's friend who resembles Shawn's sister.
You can see Amber in Kaitlyn's periscope video.

Kashathediva wrote:

bleuberry wrote:Oh Kaitlyn

kaitlynbristowe 
See ya! Wouldn't wanna be ya! @shopstateofgrace it's like you made this shirt for me. And I love you for it. 

Yanno--you don't like it, IMO, you are better off taking the high road and saying nothing. 
Putting yourself on a national/international tv show and doing publicity for such and doing and talking about things most of us consider private is going to cause talk and controversy.
 Anyone who thinks otherwise, IMO, is being naive. 
IMO--wearing a tee shirt like that is hate shaming. those who are not fans have rights in this country just like any other group. And hate? Are people threatening her life? What constitutes hate? Has someone hung a Kaitlyn doll tarred and feathered in effigy? 
I don't advocate harassing anyone in any way, shape or form, but expressing an opinion is not the same as harassing, imo. 
Either way, she put herself in this position. I don't know what she expected. 
Wearing a tee shirt like that just shows ignorance on her part and again--impulsivity. JMO

Kasha, thank you for stating it so well. She is really becoming MeAndi#2. MeKaitlyn?

AllAboutLove wrote:Imho, people that truly DGAF pay no attention to those who are not fans/h@ters.
Giving it attention means it bothers one on some level.


ETA: I also find her responses to be childish as in:"You don't like me? Well I don't like you either, hmmph!"
"Hi h@ters, Bye h@ters" t-shirt: literally wearing a shirt that pays attention to the negative.
Why not a shirt that says, "Hi fans, love you"?
K says she DGAF with her words but her actions say another thing.
Words not matching actions once again, imo.

For a woman who claims to be very self aware and not ashamed of her actions, she puts a lot of stock into the opinions of others. She doesn't seem to realize that the opposite of love isn't hate, it is indifference. Kaitlyn cares too much about who doesn't like her. She needs to learn from her friend Becca to kill them with kindness and the those who are not fans seem to give up. She gives them the reaction they want instead. BTW, am I am hater too? Awesome, Kaitlyn and Josh Murray, the box of rocks twins. Here I thought Shawn was the next Josh, but is actually Kaitlyn? Weird.

AllAboutLove wrote:^ I believe the girl is Amber, K's friend who resembles Shawn's sister.
You can see Amber in Kaitlyn's periscope video.

Oh wow, they do look crazy alike! I just saw Becca's snapchat, and I think this Amber was there and she referred to her a handler.

glazedover wrote:Everyone is entitled to voice their opinions (sorry for the grammar), including Kaitlin on her t-shirt. Of course the negativity bothers her. Why wouldn't it? But she is spunky and likes to throw it back. Good for her. That's her own way of dealing with those who have disparaging things to say about her. I hope it helps her not give a damn.

Love this and well said. ;) #teamkaitboo

Kaitlyn is embarrassingly drunk in Becca's snapchat. Like, she looks like a 16 year old who's gotten drunk for the very first time in her life. She's not acting AT ALL like someone who's mature enough for marriage IMO.

^^^ I saw it too and different strokes for different folks. Looks like they are ALL having a blast. imho of course. Love me some kaitlyn and becca.

AmyB wrote:Kaitlyn is embarrassingly drunk in Becca's snapchat. Like, she looks like a 16 year old who's gotten drunk for the very first time in her life. She's not acting AT ALL like someone who's mature enough for marriage IMO.

IA. I am embarrassed for her.
I like Becca but honestly am getting tired of the constant snapchats and SM posts of concerts, songs, food and so on.
I know they are young but it is sad to me that that is all it seems these young people's lives are about - just aimlessly going from one entertainment experience to the next.
Whitney is truly a class act in comparison, imo.

soccermom333 wrote:^^^ I saw it too and different strokes for different folks.    Looks like they are ALL having a blast. imho of course.   Love me some kaitlyn and becca.  

Me too! I know lots of people who are married, about to get married, want to get married, including myself, and we've had silly drunken nights . And continue to do so well into our/their 30s. It's really just different strokes for different folks. I don't think there is one state of being that is universally "ready for marriage" - it's like "marriage material", it doesn't make sense to me. I know women that have been happily married for many years, and are much like Kaitlyn in terms of their personalities. And there are all types of marriages - with kids, without kids, open, late, long engagements, short engagements. It's hard to put a blanket statement on marriage and who's ready for it and whose will last. IMO.

As for Kaitlyn, she's with her favourite gal pal and she's probably had a hard 8 hours of filming and answering to 25 ex boyfriends. I'd be getting my drunk on too.

If it helps, I'm young too (younger than both Becca and Kaitlyn) and I feel like their lives seem really aimless too. It's also sad to me that they feel the need to SC every single day, multiple times a day; I always think that it must be so exhausting to try and be cute and witty 24/7 and be so dependent on people's thoughts and opinions on you that you have to share everything.

Becca and Kaitlyn were two of my favorites on Chris's season, but their SM activity shows that they both have a lot of growing up to do. I am surprised that Whitney has remained so close with these two.

Eta: there's nothing wrong with getting drunk once in a while. However, it seems like Kaitlyn is drunk pretty much every weekend and must find it brag-worthy, since she always documents it for SC.

Back in the 1990s when I was a resident assistant part of our training in counseling our residents was that drinking to excess once in a while happens, but when it happens every time you go out or every weekend, then you need to start thinking is this a problem. Or if you find you can't have fun without being drunk again you might have a problem.

I don't have snapchat or periscope, so I don't know if Kaitlyn is drunk all the time, but if she is, then I hope someone close to her will talk to her about it.

stuckinsc wrote:Back in the 1990s when I was a resident assistant part of our training in counseling our residents was that drinking to excess once in a while happens, but when it happens every time you go out or every weekend, then you need to start thinking is this a problem. Or if you find you can't have fun without being drunk again you might have a problem.

I don't have snapchat or periscope, so I don't know if Kaitlyn is drunk all the time, but if she is, then I hope someone close to her will talk to her about it.

I don't think she's drunk all the time or even every weekend. This is the first time I've seen her verifiably "drunk" where she's slurring her words etc. She drinks every weekend, sure, but that's a different thing. She enjoys her wine and why shouldn't she? There are doctors who recommend a glass of wine everyday (for example: http://www.everydayhealth.com/longevity/is-red-wine-good-for-you.aspx)

It's the same thing IMO as Shawn's too upset too often = potential wifebeater, and Kaitlyn has one drunk snapchat = potential alcoholic. Those are heavy things to say. She's immature, rash, impulsive, sure; those are opinion things, but alcoholic is medical, and a bit much to insinuate. Just my opinion.