Kiptyn Locke & Tenley Molzahn - Discussion

albean99 wrote:I don't know if anyone missed it but they've been back together for a while. I'm still hopeful for an engagement at some point. 

http://www.people.com/people/article/0,,20790208,00.html

they're back together since late last year, seem they took about a year "off".

I'm glad you unlocked it, GA. We had talked about this in Tenley's thread.

I follow both of them and I didn't see any indication that either were dating when they were apart. I don't think Tenley would have gotten back with Kiptyn if she didn't feel they're on the same page.

^^ Yep. I believe so too. This is a quote from the article linked in above.

"I think we both know where we want it to head. The purpose and the goal is marriage and family."

albean99 wrote:I'm glad you unlocked it, GA. We had talked about this in Tenley's thread.

I follow both of them and I didn't see any indication that either were dating when they were apart. I don't think Tenley would have gotten back with Kiptyn if she didn't feel they're on the same page.

I've been following them too.  They continued on with life, separately for almost one year, then all of a sudden they are together in Hawaii!  They are exceptional people IMO. They are so involved in charities, healthy lifestyles, and set a good example to all. The article link upthread shows how they have their heads scewed on right. The other reason I follow them, is when we were sleuthing Jake Pavelka's season, I didn't care for her. Her squeeky voice, the rumour's we uncovered about her ex etc. Then after the show she started to change, it's wonderful to see the change in her.   

It's not that I think she or he are not decent people, I just don't see marriage in their future.

Even yesterday, after posting what I did, I spent 20 minutes reading her twitter and Facebook and, then, his. Kiptyn's out there posting photos, chit chatting, sharing this and that. He's not hiding his life from the public, he's just hiding his relationship with her.

I'm older, I've seen it, I've done it, and have an opinion that comes down to this: If Tenley was my good friend and she asked what I thought, I'd say, if it is marriage and children that you're looking for, maybe you should look somewhere else.

I don't think he is ready to get married.

He's not hiding his life from the public, he's just hiding his relationship with her.

I'm older, I've seen it, I've done it, and have an opinion that comes down to this: If Tenley was my good friend and she asked what I thought, I'd say, if it is marriage and children that you're looking for, maybe you should look somewhere else.

I'm not surprised and I quite agree with you. They were together for a long time before they split up. I got the feeling that Tenley always wanted marriage and children with him. If I were Tenley, I would not have gotten back together without Kiptyn wanting tell his family and the world that they were getting married (in May or November or whenever.) He's got to want it as much as she does.

I feel really sad for her. She wants "her guy" as she calls him to be obsessed with her like JP and Sean, constantly talking about their beautiful wives, boasting about how lucky they are and wanting the whole world to know how much they love Ash/Cat. That's really sad because I agree, Kiptyn basically hides her and has no interest in ever marrying her IMO.

Alanna wrote:I feel really sad for her. She wants "her guy" as she calls him to be obsessed with her like JP and Sean, constantly talking about their beautiful wives, boasting about how lucky they are and wanting the whole world to know how much they love Ash/Cat. That's really sad because I agree, Kiptyn basically hides her and has no interest in ever marrying her IMO.

I agree. Just last night I decided to check his Insta to see what he's up to, and there's practically no sign that he's in a relationship. Heck Roberto keeps a low profile and still manages to acknowledge his girlfriend.

edit: Just read Amberish's post, exactly what I was trying to say.

We only see what's on social media. It's what happens in real life that's important. Before it really got out, Tenley went with Kiptyn to his mom's play when it opened. That's how I figured it out - they both posted pics from the same location. They also have visited her family in Oregon together and are entertaining friends. He's not much for sharing personal things. Maybe he gets tired of people making the same comments.    

I know what you're saying and it could be true about Kiptyn but I think it will happen when they're both ready. If not then Tenley will move on. She's a smart & very driven person not to mention she's adorable. I'm pretty sure she has options.  :Nod:

chloep wrote:^^ Yep. I believe so too. This is a quote from the article linked in above.

"I think we both know where we want it to head. The purpose and the goal is marriage and family."

She "thinks"???  By now they both should know the expected outcome, imo.

Amberish wrote:It's not that I think she or he are not decent people, I just don't see marriage in their future.

Even yesterday, after posting what I did, I spent 20 minutes reading her twitter and Facebook and, then, his. Kiptyn's out there posting photos, chit chatting, sharing this and that. He's not hiding his life from the public, he's just hiding his relationship with her.

I'm older, I've seen it, I've done it, and have an opinion that comes down to this: If Tenley was my good friend and she asked what I thought, I'd say, if it is marriage and children that you're looking for, maybe you should look somewhere else.

You could be right, but personally I think it is just that these 2 people (especially Kiptyn) do not like being in the public eye too much.
Quote below from the link at the bottom of Page 35.
Sometimes public pressure can be the undoing of these couples telling them that we need to see more posts about each other on FB, Twitter, etc. otherwise their relationship is over or that one cares more for the other than the other one does. I know us fans would like to see a lot more about them, but all in their good time or otherwise it is just not meant to be. However in the meantime I wish them much joy & happiness together.


After breaking up last year, Molzahn said she and Locke have been back together "for several months now" and that being away from the public eye has been a beneficial change, allowing the couple to look toward the future.

"It's a new, healthy place for us where we don't have to live up to the pressures that we were feeling," "I'm happy, and I think we both know where we want it to head. The purpose and the goal is marriage and family."

It wasn't something that we thought we needed to make public. It's so important to us, and people thought that we got together through a TV show, which was a big piece of it, but then it was so public and for us there's nothing to hide, but being away from that spotlight is such a new, healthy thing for us."