The Bachelor 20 - Ben Higgins - Social Media - Vids - Media - *Sleuthing - Spoilers* - #4

The way the camera focused in on Leah as she was walking into the room and the music change...there's no way it wasn't her IMO.

The only other option I can think of is Lauren H. Is she friendly with the others on SM?

mindless wrote:The only other option I can think of is Lauren H. Is she friendly with the others on SM?

Very. She's also like best friends with Leah.

eversotrue wrote:

mindless wrote:The only other option I can think of is Lauren H. Is she friendly with the others on SM?

Very. She's also like best friends with Leah.

How do we know she's best friends with Leah?

GuardianAngel wrote:

eversotrue wrote:

mindless wrote:The only other option I can think of is Lauren H. Is she friendly with the others on SM?

Very. She's also like best friends with Leah.

How do we know she's best friends with Leah?

She's "like" best friends with Leah. They seem very close going off of what they say to one another on SM

From her SM, I don't see Leah that close to Lauren H. She's closest to Caila (who visited her last week) and based on their SM.

AllAboutLove wrote:From her SM, I don't see Leah that close to Lauren H. She's closest to Caila (who visited her last week) and based on their SM.

Leah is close to Caila, but she's also close to Lauren H.

I just saw the video of Lauren upset and it was definitely Leah who said something to Ben because she became so defensive by saying right away I did not say anything it looks like the night portion of the group date

eversotrue wrote:

AllAboutLove wrote:From her SM, I don't see Leah that close to Lauren H. She's closest to Caila (who visited her last week) and based on their SM.

Leah is close to Caila, but she's also close to Lauren H.

Leah IG

Also : https://scontent.cdninstagram.com/t51.2885-15/s640x640/sh0.08/e35/12545434_882875915158977_1018305592_n.jpg

I think the safe thing to say is: So and so is friends with and corresponds with _________. To quantify how close or distant a relationship is with someone is subjective, based on observations.
It's objective to post photos etc, but to say someone is __________ is an interpretation.
SO--facts are ok, opinions stated as fact, not so much. Opinions stated as facts spawn heated discussions of this interpretation vs that interpretation.
No one is right or wrong with an opinion as that is personal. However, a fact stands alone with it's data.
AND this in a nutshell is why mods are such sticklers on this subject.
I hope this makes sense and sinks in as it is getting tedious imo.

sophienette wrote:

eversotrue wrote:

AllAboutLove wrote:From her SM, I don't see Leah that close to Lauren H. She's closest to Caila (who visited her last week) and based on their SM.

Leah is close to Caila, but she's also close to Lauren H.

Leah IG

Also : https://scontent.cdninstagram.com/t51.2885-15/s640x640/sh0.08/e35/12545434_882875915158977_1018305592_n.jpg

On another note... they sure do look alike!!!

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Kashathediva wrote:I think the safe thing to say is: So and so is friends with and corresponds with _________. To quantify how close or distant a relationship is with someone is subjective, based on observations.
It's objective to post photos etc, but to say someone is __________ is an interpretation.
SO--facts are ok, opinions stated as fact, not so much.    Opinions stated as facts spawn heated discussions of this interpretation vs that interpretation.
No one is right or wrong with an opinion as that is personal. However, a fact stands alone with it's data.
AND this in a nutshell is why mods are such sticklers on this subject.
I hope this makes sense and sinks in as it is getting tedious imo.

This ^ all was perfectly explained!! I'm not singling out this recent situation but an unspecific version could/should even be posted into the Forum Rules as an example because like you said misinterpretation of this rule happens fairly frequently. Kasha you may want to even save it somwwhere to copy and paste .