Bachelorette 13 - Rachel Lindsay - General Discussion - *Sleuthing Spoilers*

GuardianAngel wrote:

snipped Someone who can put her in her place.

That's the last thing I would have thought Rachel was looking for in a guy. In the few interviews I've seen her answer the questions of what she's looking for,  I've never heard her say that.

I think both of them meant someone who can call her out if need be - kinda like what Nick was looking for in a partner. I think they could have articulated it better and not used such misogynistic terms but I don't think they meant it in a bad way.

What I also found interesting was when the interviewer asked if Nick was like the person they were describing and she was looking for and they said 'No'. They didn't say anything more about it after that.

All JMO

It appears we have already seen how she behaves when someone calls her out. I'm not convinced that's what she's looking for at all.

Nick has always said he was looking for someone who can put him in his place. I'm pretty sure I've heard or or read somewhere too, that she said Nick was not someone she was interested in as far as type which confirmed to me as I suspected during sleuthing. That was a friendship brought to F3 for a reason IMHO. Not that it matters, it all worked out and hopefully she'll have a happy ending.

GuardianAngel wrote:It appears we have already seen how she behaves when someone calls her out. I'm not convinced that's what she's looking for at all.

Nick has always said he was looking for someone who can put him in his place. I'm pretty sure I've heard or or read somewhere too, that she said Nick was not someone she was interested in as far as type which confirmed to me as I suspected during sleuthing. That was a friendship brought to F3 for a reason IMHO. Not that it matters, it all worked out and hopefully she'll have a happy ending.

How have we seen how she behaves when someone call her out?

IMO - I kind of felt like she needs someone who won't be in the same professional space as her (she repeatedly said she doesn't want another lawyer) because I think she doesn't want to compete with her parter for attention in that aspect. I think professionally she still wants someone who is driven and determined but not necessarily a lawyer.

Dessler wrote:

GuardianAngel wrote:It appears we have already seen how she behaves when someone calls her out. I'm not convinced that's what she's looking for at all.

Nick has always said he was looking for someone who can put him in his place. I'm pretty sure I've heard or or read somewhere too, that she said Nick was not someone she was interested in as far as type which confirmed to me as I suspected during sleuthing. That was a friendship brought to F3 for a reason IMHO. Not that it matters, it all worked out and hopefully she'll have a happy ending.

How have we seen how she behaves when someone call her out?

Not GA, but I think she may be referring to how things went down between Rachel and Vanessa on the show and how she continued with it post show.
GA please correct me if I have it wrong.

And I don't want to restart that whole debate...been there, done that...just answering a question.

I'm not GA either, but that's how I interpreted the situation.

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@GuardianAngel Can you check Josiah IG please Carine is saying the number has change from 2301 to 2288. Would that not means he is gone? We have not find out the 3rd person who left last RC only Jonathan and Iggy we know about.

Not, GA, but if you read in his thread, pvpr has given an detailed update on the numbers since she's been keeping up.

The number difference did not all happen at once.  If it's only 13 people different since last viewing, it could mean nothing.  IMO, need more to go on to rule him out.

I don't think it's fair to hold whatever happened with Vanessa against Rachel when nobody knows what actually happened. I'm so tired of seeing it referenced in her threads, tbh. It happened, it's over, and both women have moved on with their lives. I really hope it doesn't keep coming up through Rachel's whole season.

puppiesandkittens wrote:I don't think it's fair to hold whatever happened with Vanessa against Rachel when nobody knows what actually happened. I'm so tired of seeing it referenced in her threads, tbh. It happened, it's over, and both women have moved on with their lives. I really hope it doesn't keep coming up through Rachel's whole season.

IMO - I kind of doubt it'll actually be bought up in this season because it was never actually brought up on Nick's season. Only people that follow the show intensely (us) or believe RS even know about the incident.

This is a general discussion thread so all thoughts are welcome.  Some many tire of the topic and have the option not to read, skip, skim, or whatever necessary to avoid topics they might not want to read about or are tired of hearing about.  No one is forcing anyone to read and post in any thread.  We have a ton of threads, venture out and explore others until the topic changes.  We do not tell others what they can and can't post about.  

As for whatever went down between them, no we don't know the details, but that didn't stop the speculation and people taking sides and/or turning on the other during Nick's season.  And since it involved our reigning Ette, its relevant in regards to actions and attitudes, IMO, regardless of how much or little we know.

JMOAA