Bachelor 22 - Arie Luyendyk Jr - Episodes - Mar 5th FRC ATFR - #2 - *Sleuthing Spoilers*

Gotcha! I feel like there’s a line between them really wanting you to find love but also really want to get ratings..I guess next question or to elaborate on that one—is there a lot of pressure to propose?

— Let's Chat Bachelor (@bach_chat) March 6, 2018

One word... YES

— Jason Mesnick (@jason_mesnick) March 6, 2018

northernviewer wrote:Just wanted to say that Arie was in a damned if you damned if you don’t situation whenBecca asked him to leave ..
He’s being criticized for not leaving right away, but if he’d have left right away ... he’d be criticized for being a coward and running away from a messy situation ..... it’s a breakup... it’s always messy and awkward ...

Aria wrote:Again, Arie is not a child. I'm sure he was told to stay to get her to cry (Mills basically alluded to this in his podcast and Becca even said "well, you finally saw me cry!"), but he could be a freaking man and say no. It just shows again that Arie has no idea what love is.

Sharleen also didn't excuse him for that and said in her video that his lack of empathy and his inability to leave her alone was horrible. IMO.

GuardianAngel wrote:Again, I don't post my thoughts because I'm sticking up for him, or trying to make him look good.

My point is edit, and the control TPTB have over contestants.

Jason in his twitter Q&A points out in plain English. An example,
https://twitter.com/jason_mesnick/status/970880824768741376

Gotcha! I feel like there’s a line between them really wanting you to find love but also really want to get ratings..I guess next question or to elaborate on that one—is there a lot of pressure to propose?

— Let's Chat Bachelor (@bach_chat) March 6, 2018

One word... YES

— Jason Mesnick (@jason_mesnick) March 6, 2018

pbmax wrote:

northernviewer wrote:Just wanted to say that Arie was in a damned if you damned if you don’t situation whenBecca asked him to leave ..
He’s being criticized for not leaving right away, but if he’d have left right away ... he’d be criticized for being a coward and running away from a messy situation ..... it’s a breakup... it’s always messy and awkward ...

Exactly! The very same thing I thought. If he had left he would have been crucified. If Arie had power over the producers and cameras, then Becca had power with her potty mouth to tell them to shut it down.

Newto wrote:@Lucas15 - CMIIW but to my recollection Brad did not propose to either gal on his first season; he sent them both home.  He proposed to Emily in his second season.

GuardianAngel wrote:

Mommyof2 wrote:Oh, and more thing.  Bekah M. needs to take pointers from Sienne. Sienne was nothing but class last night when asked about the situation.  Bekah on SM...not so much.  Jmo

Bekah is showing her maturity level. I can see her turning out to be another Corrine on BIP. They always need someone in that role.

What annoys me the most is the way she answers questions followed by the look of "there see how mature I am with that answer" look on her face.

mprssdbyu wrote:

pbmax wrote:

northernviewer wrote:Just wanted to say that Arie was in a damned if you damned if you don’t situation whenBecca asked him to leave ..
He’s being criticized for not leaving right away, but if he’d have left right away ... he’d be criticized for being a coward and running away from a messy situation ..... it’s a breakup... it’s always messy and awkward ...

Exactly! The very same thing I thought. If he had left he would have been crucified. If Arie had power over the producers and cameras, then Becca had power with her potty mouth to tell them to shut it down.

It's a shame she didn't tell him to STFD or GTFO like half of America did last night. Just a shame.  

pbmax wrote:

mprssdbyu wrote:

pbmax wrote:

Exactly! The very same thing I thought. If he had left he would have been crucified. If Arie had power over the producers and cameras, then Becca had power with her potty mouth to tell them to shut it down.

It's a shame she didn't tell him to STFD or GTFO like half of America did last night. Just a shame.  

Yeah it is, so half of America could see it. And they are just upset because Arie dumped Becca.

It Arie's season and I will still talk about her season just others are doing. JMO

pbmax wrote:

GuardianAngel wrote:

Mommyof2 wrote:Oh, and more thing.  Bekah M. needs to take pointers from Sienne. Sienne was nothing but class last night when asked about the situation.  Bekah on SM...not so much.  Jmo

Bekah is showing her maturity level. I can see her turning out to be another Corrine on BIP. They always need someone in that role.

What annoys me the most is the way she answers questions followed by the look of "there see how mature I am with that answer" look on her face.

She's getting pathetic with a ego problem. Since fans been complimenting her it's gone to her head. Now she wants to act like she's too good for Arie but she was acting like that when she was locking lips with him and running to him crying.